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How we send 50,000+ DMs a month without getting banned
If you’re automating LinkedIn, Instagram, or X for outreach and not thinking about list hygiene, volume limits, and inbox placement, you’re on borrowed time.
Yes, these platforms have their own spam filters. And yes, we burned accounts for MONTHS trying to figure this out.
Now we’re sending ~50,000 DMs/month safely, across Instagram, LinkedIn, and X.
Here’s the exact setup (so you don’t waste months like we did).
Stop Over-Automating
We used all the popular tools. ProspectIn, Phantombuster, X-Reacher, etc.
They worked… until they didn’t.
Platforms know when you’re botting. The safest way?
👉 A VA manually sending batches 3x/day (morning, midday, night).
It mimics human behavior.
No bans. No headaches.
Isolate Every Account
Run each account in its own clean environment.
✅ Use privacy browsers like AdsPower or Dolphin
✅ Attach unique proxies (never reuse IPs)
✅ Each account behaves like a real user
Think of it as giving each account a fresh identity.
Follow Strict Send Limits
Start small. Ramp slowly.
Instagram → 40 messages/day/account
X/Twitter → 100/day/account
LinkedIn → 20-30 InMails/day/account
Example:
20 IG accounts → 800 DMs/day → ~24,000/month.
10 X accounts → 1,000/day → ~30,000/month.
10 LinkedIn accounts → 300/day → ~9,000/month.
Total = ~60,000/month without tripping filters.
Feed Them Clean Lists
Most “bad outreach” is just bad targeting.
We pull leads from:
✅ Parser / Leads.cm (IG)
✅ X-Reacher (Twitter bios)
✅ LinkedIn Sales Navigator
Then we refilter with AI (to strip out garbage).
Clean data = higher replies + fewer flags.
Send What Actually Works
On cold outreach, short text-only DMs get seen first.
After they accept → you can send voice/video.
Instagram is picky (can’t send media before acceptance).
X lets you send media straight away (but it’ll be hidden until accepted).
LinkedIn Premium + open profile? Free InMail.
Avoid the Spam Folder
Every platform has a “hidden” inbox for suspected spam.
If you get dumped there:
→ Pause sending for ~10 days.
→ Use the account like a normal human: scroll, like, comment, DM friends.
→ Ramp back up slowly.
Do the Math
VA costs? $300–500/month each
Each VA manages 500–1,000 sends/day
Total system cost? < $1k/month
Even with a bad 2% reply rate → 1,200 replies/month
Even if only 20% convert → ~50 meetings/month
For less than $1k.
Why Manual Wins Long-Term
Yes, automation is tempting.
But when bans nuke your accounts and you lose months of traction… it’s not worth it.
Manual + scaled accounts + clean lists = boring, but it WORKS.
This is exactly how we’re booking 50–100 meetings/month across social without risking account nukes.
Want the full DM scripts + exact VA SOPs we use?
DM me on Instagram it’s me not a VA :)
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